tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7691825571378985639.post7458333767306801537..comments2023-10-05T10:07:58.845-04:00Comments on Single Gal In The City: The Relationship Deadline DilemmaMelissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06050492714240085320noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7691825571378985639.post-49950424133881137182008-11-12T21:24:00.000-05:002008-11-12T21:24:00.000-05:00Completely agree about not forcing fate. Though I ...Completely agree about not forcing fate. Though I have to admit, it's hard to resist the deadline impulse with my 35th birthday only a few months away!Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06050492714240085320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7691825571378985639.post-3206168015920345542008-11-11T09:10:00.000-05:002008-11-11T09:10:00.000-05:00I have my own arbitrary relationship deadline: hav...I have my own arbitrary relationship deadline: have my own children by age 35 or adopt. However, I agree that it's best to focus on what is happening in the relationship rather than fixating on the deadline. Some couples meet, get married and have children within a year while others take several years getting to know one another before committing. Maybe I'll change my mind by 34, but for right now, I'm content to just let things happen- you can't force fate!Magnifiquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17763016005025000119noreply@blogger.com